Tuesday, January 19, 2010

The art of conversation is dying



Nowadays the preference for the electronic communication devices has increased a lot. The world of science has improved and due to this many new inventions are smiling around the world. The words email, chat and sms are very common and popular among the teen agers these days. Each and every house has a telephone and even a computer too. So people find it easier to make a call to anyone they wish to pass the message or just have a chat. They even find that sending an email or a sms is much easier and quicker rather than going and knocking at the doors to pass the message.
Nowadays if you get out of your house and step in the road you will see 10% of the people hanged on their phones and 80% of them will be sending sms. It’s very much clear that the people have less direct interaction with one another. No one these days wishes to have a face to face meeting. It is true that people hardly find leisure time now. But even if they get free time they wish to get them selves engaged in some other work than visiting their relatives or friends.
The most popular mean of communication today is online chat. With the growth of technology almost all have access to internet. People prefer this mode very much, since it is very easy. They find it easier to sit in their room and having chat with their friends and relatives. Some feel that this reduces the time and energy spent while going to a place and meeting them to have the same conversation.
These modern means of communication is sometime may be good and beneficial. But it is killing the lovely art of conversation. When you are having a conversation with a person in present you have more passion on the topic you speak about. Your facial expressions will add more meaning to your conversation. These are dead in these electronic modes of communication. It is some time even bad for your health. Little by little people will not have interaction at all and will become isolated. Even they could get mentally affected in the long term. Lovingness also dies. People will even lose interest in their own life and will live for the sake of living. Death of the art of conversation is a real threat to this world which enjoys more the invention of science.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Happy New Year 2010


Wishing all the bloggers a very happy new year

I Wish you a,
Fantastic January
Lovable February
Marvelous March
Foolish April
Enjoyable May
Successful June
Wonderful July
Independent August
Powerful September
Tastiest October
Beautiful November
Happiest December

Have a VICTORIOUS YEAR
Hope I'm the first person to wish u happy 12 months of 2010 :)

Thursday, December 17, 2009

A Glory Has Departed



When I was in grade 12 as usual I participated in the inter school speech competition and I was selected to participate in the zonal level competition. I was asked to prepare a narrative speech. My English teacher Ms Tharmalingam selected a lovely speech for me. It was the speech given by Jawaharlal Nehru about Mahathma Gandhi, "The Glory Has Departed". It was indeed an inspiring one. I still love to read that. I wanted to share it with you all too friends. In the zonal level I was awarded the second place too :)

[Editor's Note: Jawaharlal Nehru was a scholar, writer, and the first Prime Minister of India. This speech was delivered on February 2, 1948 before the constituent Assembly at New Delhi, 3 days after the assassination of Mahatma Gandhi. Nehru expresses the shock and grief of the people of India at the loss of their beloved leader.]

We praise people in well-chosen words and we have some kind of a measure for greatness. How shall we praise him and how shall we measure him, because he was not of the common clay that all of us are made of? He came, lived a fairly long span of life and has passed away. No words of praise of ours in this House are needed, for he has had greater praise in his life than any living man in history.

And during these two or three days since his death he has had the homage of the world; what can we add to that? How can we praise him, how can we who have been children of his, and perhaps more intimately his children than the children of his body, for we have all been in some greater or smaller measure the children of his spirit, unworthy as we were?

A glory has departed and the sun that warmed and brightened our lives has set and We shiver in the cold and dark. Yet, he would not have us feel this way. After all, that glory that we saw for all these years, that man with the divine fire, changed us also--and such as we are, we have been molded by him during these years; and out of that divine fire many of us also took a small spark which strengthened and made us work to some extent on the lines that he fashioned.

And so if we praise him, our words seem rather small and if we praise him, to some extent we also praise ourselves.

Great men and eminent men have monuments in bronze and marble set up for them, but this man of divine fire managed in his life-time to become enshrined in millions and millions of hearts so that all of us became somewhat of the stuff that he was made of, though to an infinitely lesser degree. He spread out in this way all over India not in palaces only, or in select places or in assemblies but in every hamlet and hut of the lowly and those who suffer. He lives in the hearts of millions and he will live for immemorial ages.

What then can we say about him except to feel humble on this occasion? To praise him we are not worthy-to praise him whom we could not follow adequately and sufficiently. It is almost doing him an injustice just to pass him by with words when he demanded work and labor and sacrifice from us; in a large measure he made this country, during the last thirty years or more, attain to heights of sacrifice which in that particular domain have never been equaled elsewhere. He succeeded in that. Yet ultimately things happened which no doubt made him suffer tremendously though his tender face never lost its smile and he never spoke a harsh word to anyone. Yet, he must have suffered- suffered for the failing of this generation whom he had trained, suffered because we went away from the path that he had shown us. And ultimately the hand of a child of his-for he after all is as much a child of his as any other Indian-a hand of the child of his struck him down.

Long ages afterwards history will judge of this period that we have passed through. It will judge of the successes and the failures-we are too near it to be proper judges and to understand what has happened and what has not happened. All we know is that there was a glory and that it is no more; all we know is that for the moment there is darkness, not so dark certainly because when we look into our hearts we still find the living flame which he lighted there. And if those living flames exist, there will not be darkness in this land and we shall be able, with our effort, remembering him and following his path, to illumine this land again, small as we are, but still with the fire that he instilled into us.

He was perhaps the greatest symbol of the India of the past, and may I say, of the India of the future, that we could have had. We stand on this perilous edge of the present between that past and the future to be and we face all manner of perils and the greatest peril is sometimes the lack of faith which comes to us, the sense of frustration that comes to us, the sinking of the heart and of the spirit that comes to us when we see ideals go overboard, when we see the great things that we talked about somehow pass into empty words and life taking a different course. Yet, I do believe that perhaps this period will pass soon enough.

He has gone, and all over India there is a feeling of having been left desolate and forlorn. All of us sense that feeling, and I do not know when we shall be able to get rid of it, and yet together with that feeling there is also a feeling of proud thankfulness that it has been given to us of this generation to be associated with this mighty person. In ages to come, centuries and maybe millennia after us, people will think of this generation when this man of God trod on earth and will think of us who, however small, could also follow his path and tread the holy ground where his feet had been. Let us be worthy of him.